Have you ever thought to yourself 'Who am I to...?'
Maybe you've looked at a promotion and not applied because you don't feel like you're good enough - even though colleagues consistently tell you otherwise.
Perhaps you're called to aim bigger, to make a real difference, but you can't put yourself out there because you're afraid people will find out you're really not as good as they think you are.
Or maybe you think you only got to where you are because you put in the extra hours, worked really hard and you're worried everyone will find out you're not a natural.
If you're ready to stop thinking 'I can't' and start yelling 'You can't stop me!' then this course is for you.
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What if you really are an imposter?
Did you know that feeling like an imposter is a thought that over 70% of women have at some point in their careers, and yet we very rarely talk about it with each other, so we often feel like we really ARE an imposter.
And when you think about it, it's no wonder.
Society has been subtly, and too often not so subtly, telling women that they are not good enough to be leaders for decades.
For hundreds of years leaders were men, and while that is changing, (a little too slowly for my liking) it has meant that the term 'leader' has become synonymous with masculine traits - command and control, be strong - don’t look weak, know all the answers, don’t back down.
So when women step up to lead and they don’t fit the mould, it’s no surprise they wonder ‘who am I to...’ or ‘someone’s going to find out I’m not a real leader’.
It's time for you to change the script.
The Can't Stop Me Now! course is for you if:
- you are called to be a leader because you want to support and guide others, yet your own thoughts are holding you back from taking the next step, OR
- you're in a leadership role and you feel like it's just a matter of time before someone finds out you're not as good as they think you are.
Through the combined power of psychology, brain science and group coaching, we will work through three key pillars, so you can finally get out of your own way, fully step into being a leader and start making a real difference.
Betty M.
I came to the Can’t Stop Me Now! Course because I wanted to try something independent that was focused specifically on me as an individual. I’d tried one-to-one coaching previously, but the focus was on team harmony, not my personal growth.
I had several ah-ha moments from the course. Drilling down to find the underpinning belief driving our actions/feelings of being an imposter was a big one, as was using CLAP.
I've only just finished the course, and I’ve already been able to stop my imposter syndrome thoughts in the moment and look objectively at what is going on to cause these feelings.
Why Rochelle?
I’ve had that feeling of fooling people into thinking I am better than I really am. No matter how often people would tell me I was good at something, I always found an excuse.
Oh, that’s lovely, they’re just being nice to me. Or… if only they knew it’s all smoke and mirrors.
While I had thoughts of being an imposter, I also knew I wanted to be a leader. To make a bigger impact.
So I invested thousands of dollars in personal development courses, learning new tools and gaining new understanding from each one.
I studied how the brain works, reading all the literature and research and called on what I’d learned studying psychology at university.
When I saw clients and colleagues holding themselves back with the same problem as I had, I knew it was time to pass on my process.
Using the tools you will learn through this course, I am happy to say I now know I’m not fooling people. I really am good at what I do, and have earned my leadership role, and I know this will work for you too.
Ronnie J.
I felt like Imposter Syndrome was having an impact on my capability to progress at work. I'd tried a handful of generic approaches that are basically positive affirmations, but they didn't go a whole lot deeper than that
I liked the group sharing and the feedback from Rochelle. It's nice to see we're not alone, and the feedback and further thoughts from Rochelle was a handy way to really cement the course content into real life use.
Some of the activities were really confronting, but felt really REAL. Actually getting to the bottom of feelings instead of putting a bandaid over it.
I use what I've learned to bring myself back to reality. It's not always for dysfunctional thoughts, sometimes I use it when I'm just getting distracted.
Dawn W.
When it comes to imposter syndrome I know all about it. Feeling like I'm a fraud and doubting myself.
I was worried that I wouldn't be able to give the course my all because I had little learning capacity left but I'm glad I pushed myself to join.
Having a small group of like minded women was the decider for me. The interaction and talking about our own experiences helps so much when trying to understand our behaviours more. The videos really helped get into the zone of thought.
When Rochelle delved into ways to change our own language and to use the CLAP process this really was a light bulb moment for me.
I have taken this into my life and whenever I feel doubt creep in I check my self talk and change my state with a clap!
Positive affirmations are just a bandaid
While positive affirmations and visualisations feel good at the time, the effects are short lived, they feel like you're playing pretend.
The Can't Stop Me Now! course gives you the tools to use ‘in the moment’ to stop that voice inside your head from sabotaging your actions - or your mood.
More than that, you will know from the inside out, that you really are good enough to be a leader and make a difference to people’s lives.
Three key elements to letting go of feeling like an imposter, for real!
Make it personal
We work out exactly how imposter syndrome shows up for you (there’s not a one size fits all of imposter syndrome!) so you can recognise it when you see it, and understand the impacts it’s really having on your life.
Fix it quick
Next we learn how to fix the thoughts and feelings in the moment - as it’s happening - so you can move on about your day without feeling the embarrassment that comes with thinking you’re fooling people.
Inside, out
Finally, we dive deep into who you really are, working with the brain to change how you fundamentally see yourself, so that the feeling of being an imposter is gone for good.
Once you learn these tools, and understand how your brain works, you’ll see how easy it is to let these thoughts go, forever.
It's time to make a change!
The longer you allow these thoughts to hold you back the less impact you get to make on the world.
The world is crying out for good leaders right now. Leaders that care, that support and guide others, that want the best for their teams and their organisations.
It’s your time to be that leader.
You could continue to live with these thoughts, until eventually they eat you up inside. Not only will you not take the bold steps forward you know you want to, but you will start stepping backwards just to stop feeling like an imposter.
You could keep repeating positive affirmations, hoping one will stick enough to make a difference, but never quite believing them, or you can work with your brain, change who you see yourself as at a fundamental level and tell the world you ‘Can’t stop me now!’.
To serve you fully, we keep the group intimate. There are just ten spots available, so if you know this is for you, sign up today to secure your spot before they run out.
